Ok, hopefully soon I am going to start writing posts in a systematic method for the book of Proverbs. I absolutely love the book of Proverbs. I have been through it with a few good friends of mine on Saturdays and every week God had something awesome He wanted to show us during this time. The book is absolutely phenomenal, I cant say enough about it.
Proverbs is without a doubt applicable for everyone but more specifically is written to young men. Being that I am a young man myself its like getting shot with a hundred arrows in the heart every time I read it but those arrows are covered with such wisdom and love that it is impossible to walk away without a sense of urgency toward change.
I hope that through these blog others can use and learn from my experience and what the Word says. It helps me to write things out and hopefully one day I will put it book form to share with everybody!
So my goal is to eventually start blogging, starting with chapter 1 and work my way to 31. In this blog however I want to focus on the “bow chica wow wow wife” AKA Proverbs 31 woman.
Its not fair… Its not fair that 30 chapters are written to young men and yet only 1 and not even a full 1 chapter is written about women for men. The proverbs woman should really be called the “Proverbs 31 part B woman”, and in all reality guys, its up to us to be the “Proverbs 1-31part a” men. I will get back on the soapbox later but right now I want to focus on how to know you have a Proverbs 31 woman. Here go’s…
Here is the list…
1. Character before beauty… she is more concerned with the inside and integrity than she is with the outside (v. 10)
2. You can put full confidence in her…(v.11)
3. She would never do anything that would hurt you or cause others to think negatively of you (v.12)
4. She knows what she needs to do and gets it done with joy (v.13)
5. She plans ahead and is thoughtful with her spending (v.14)
6. She is a hard worker (v.15)
7. She is able to make financial investments wisely (v.16)
8. She is generous to the needy (v.20)
9. She is well prepared for anything that comes her family’s way (v. 21)
10. She dresses respectfully and modestly (v22)
11. Her husband is respected because she speaks good of him to others (v. 23)
12. She is savvy with her business transactions (v.24)
13. She is full of strength and dignity and knows that God is in control of her future (v.25)
14. She speaks with wisdom and instruction… she doesn’t just say the first thing that comes to her mind (v. 26)
15. She does not allow profit from unfair gain to enter her house hold… everything is earned with honesty (v.27)
16. She is praised by her family because she is… all of the above v. 28)
v.29 “Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.” 30 Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. 31 Giver her the reward she has earned, and let her works bring her parise at the city gate.
So thats the list guys and gals.
Verse 29 sums it up for me… There are some awesome God fearing women out there, and then there is the bow chica wow wow wife… AKA Proverbs 31… I dont know about you but I am not settling for just the regular everyday church going woman, but I am waiting on the one that totally changes my life and others around her because she stands out and abandons everything for Jesus… She loves no matter what and her heart is tender towards God. No one is perfect… but a heart abandoned to Jesus is open to transformation.
Wow, I can not wait to find her!
Prayer
Lord, you know my heart. You know my weakness and you know my strengths. God make me to be the man that I need to be to gaurd; protect and to serve such a great woman. I pray for her now, that you would keep her heart secure, that you would give her wisdom in the decisions she makes. I pray that when I meet her I take everystep with wisdom and I pursue her with Godliness and integrity. Thank you Lord for you plan and purpose for my life. Amen.